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| Author: Dele Oke

Relationships - Communication

1. It's good to talk


People love talking. But even talking comes second to being listened to.

90% of all problems people have can be taken care of if someone would just listen to them
- John Sanford

Maybe this is why God said

And the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion who will help him." Genesis 2:18 NLT The Bible


2. Why is listening important?


It has something to do with the fact that listening creates relationships. It helps connect us to others. Listening helps others become what they were created to be, because it restores their personal value and excites hope within them for their future. Listening is one of the clearest signs of genuine spirituality.- John Paul Jackson

Relationships - Genesis 2:18, Genesis 3:8


3. When communication breaks down


- Living in a cave
- Pushing under the carpet
- Lack of growth
- Loss of talent


4. What is communication


Talking (or writing) + listening + feeling = understanding

Listening to understand not reply


5. Different levels of listening


Luke 8:18
a. Ignoring the person, not listening at all
b. Pretending to hear
c. Selective hearing
d. Attentive hearing
e. Emphatic listening


6. Communication at home


Selective, attentive and emphatic


7. Communication at work


a. Attentive
b. Writing, official
c. Beware of emails
d. Beware of gossip
e. Workmates are human


8. Communication at church


Challenging, relaxing or rewarding


9. Cultural complications


- Eye contact
- Raised tones
- Coded language
- Brevity of words

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